By "running my own business" do you mean you are a sole proprietor? Or is your business an Scorps, Ccorps or multimember LLC?
If you are a sole proprietor, you can go ahead and file jointly with your spouse, and use either online Self-Employed or any version of the CD/download in order to prepare the Schedule C you will need for your business expenses. Your spouse's W-2, etc. can also be entered in that software.
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generally a joint return produces a lower tax than the total tax on two married filing separate returns. the only way to know for sure is to prepare 3 returns 1 joint and a married filing separate return for each of you. it might be cheaper in this situation to buy the desktop app if it's compatible with your computer.