Dependent Care FSA
Similar questions have been answered, but just want to clarify for my particular circumstance (and apologies if I missed a thread that answers this specifically).
I'm looking to again for the 2020 tax year to contribute the max $5k to a Dependent Care FSA. My wife and I are expecting our second child though at the end of this year and there is a possibility of her not returning to work until 2021. We'd like to however keep our first child in day care. My questions are:
1. If you make payments from DCFSA that are ineligible there is no penalty, but rather you have to include them in your income and thus pay taxes on it? (Believe this has been confirmed from other questions).
2. If my wife doesn't return to work for the entire year, we'd need to follow the above from #1?
3. In reading the IRS website one of the stipulations for this carve out is that both parents must be either full time students or gainfully employed. How is gainfully employed defined? I'm assuming since the purpose of this is to allow parents to work/attend school as long as she declared income in the amount we used the FSA for we'd be fine, but could also see there be something more concrete that's needed to be established.