Divorced and alternating years for taking the Dependent Care FSA
The IRS states that only the custodial parent (the parent with more nights with child) can take the Dependent Care FSA deduction of $5000 per year.
Here's my problem scenario - If in 2020 I am the custodial parent and I sign up for the Dependent Care FSA deduction for my employer's plan year (July 1st 2020 - June 30th 2021) the deduction will span 2 tax years. My ex will be the custodial parent in 2021 and wants to sign up for the Depende Care FSA deduction of $5000 as well. His employer's plan year is Jan 1st 2021 - Dec 31 2021. If we were to do this then we are Both getting the deduction between Jan 1st 2021 and June 30th 2021. Would this be allowed if we are not claiming the same expenses ??