I want to efile my federal return but mail my state return. I do not see that option in this years turbotax

You can, when you get to the screen where it asks what returns to e-file, select Federal and then under State click I am not ready to file State yet.  Then once your Federal return is e-filed, then go back through the File section, then choose to not file Federal but choose to file State by mail.

Please note:  With the Online version you are not charged to e-file.  The charges are the returns.  So you would have to still pay for the State return to print it out.

Here are two ways to skip your state in TurboTax Online:

1. Delete your state return, file your federal return now, and then come back later to re-do your state return.
2. Pay for both your federal and state returns now and when you get to the Here are your filing options screen, select Change next to your state return. On the the Change filing method screen, select I'm not ready to file and Save.

Method 1 doesn't require up-front payment for your state, but you'll have to re-enter your state information later. Method 2 saves the work you did on your state return, but requires up-front payment.