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how do I add the exemption
To get the "Military Veteran Exemption" Update the "General Info" section in the NJ state interview. You will arrive at a page titled, "Other situations that may apply to you." There you should select "Military Veteran" and on the following page select the taxpayer and/or spouse to whom the exemption applies.
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