Its asking when i was in the military but it was my spouse and i cant find where to change the info.

Please follow these steps to remove or add the military service indicator from your or your spouse's personal information:

• Once in your return, click on Personal Info tab
• Click blue Edit button to right of the name you need to update information for
• On Your personal info screen scroll down to the bottom of Question 1
• Click the radio button for No  (or Yes)  next to I am a member or former member of the U.S. Armed Forces (active, reserve or National Guard).
• If you indicate military service, ensure you work through all the follow on military information screens.